Isn't the point of our expectations to have something to look for in people, only to throw them away when we finally meet someone that blows us away?
Much like you I have my little quirks about this and that on a partner, but at the same time I know that if I ever met someone that I enjoyed being with I wouldn't care about all those little things.
I do understand your position though. I have been single for a couple of years now and I am just at the point where I am going to focus on meeting my needs (traveling,education,health) and let the rest just happen. I need to mobile these days and having a relationship wouldn't work, and thats how I look at it.
