[Amorok]

Seems like every deployment I've been on has this happen. Some chick gets with a dude and bangs him for a couple of weeks, then when the story gets out and she doesn't want to look like a whore, so all of a sudden this guy gets rotated out so she doesn't have to be around him or she gets to go home early. Now someone else gets fucked into being gone out of turn (and will have to deploy again when it is their turn, this is just extra time.) Now a guys career is pretty much over even if he's proved innocent, as that suspicion always leave the stain. All because the girl wanted to rotate out early, or didn't want her husband to find out she was cheating, or would rather be thought of as a victim rather than taking responsibility for their own behavior.

Every girl I know, and I mean EVERY girl I know has the story about how they got raped. I'm not going to say that a rape victim is lying, but is this some kind of rite of passage or something? Either ever man in America is a rapist or someone is a hell of a time manager. And every girl I know uses this as an excuse for some kind of psychotic behavior. Now I'm not minimizing the trauma of rape or abuse, but when does it stop being a crutch or a get out of responsibility free card? Bad things happen to guys too, ladies, and we don't whine about it nearly as much.